As an electronics engineer, rocket science seems way easier to understand. I'm also a heavy metal drummer, have long hair and blue eyes. I'm 24 and never had any meaningful romantic relationship. All I had were sporadic hookups with tinder girls and some motel nights with some cougars (I used to see a 40 year old woman that was almost like my sex teacher at the time).Many times people have come to me and said "hey, you must be a success with the girls!", and I wonder where the fuck do they get that idea from.
I'm fucking terrible outside the goddamn dating apps, and I hate to be so reliant on them, because they have their share of problems, as you most probably know. I have the courage to approach girls, but I don't have much to say. I introduce myself, ask their name and then try to start a conversation by talking about the music or something like that. But usually I get cold short answers, and the conversation quickly dies out. I have the feeling that I'm just bothering these girls, and I don't want to bother anyone, so I walk away. People say this is so easy, but for me it is definetely not. I wish it was as easy as just asking "hey, do you want to hook up with me?" directly
I fear that I won't find my first girlfriend if I don't master this occult art of whispering into girl's ears, because I'm definetely not finding a girlfriend on Tinder.
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