Timing is a factor that plays into a woman’s receptiveness, whether it’s short term or long term. Sometimes, she is at a point in her life where she truly is busy, and is not proactively looking to get involved with someone. This means her threshold for being open to someone is a little higher, and she might be a little more guarded with her emotions.
But make no mistake, no matter how busy someone is, they will make time for someone they have a high level attraction to, or someone they see a future with. Finding a partner is something that is always prevalent in most people lives, whether they admit it or not.
If a woman tells you she’s too busy, it means one of two things. Either she is just trying to spare your feelings, and is using being busy as an excuse to phase you out. The reason for her lack of attraction doesn’t matter at this point. Move on.
The other scenario is that she truly is busy or emotionally distracted. And while she may have a certain level of attraction to you, but under these circumstances, she’s still not attracted to you enough to pursue something. Maybe under different circumstances she might be more open, but hypotheticals don’t matter. In the present moment, she does not have a very high level of attraction. Again, there is no point trying to reason with her, or keep pursuing.
Pull back. If she wants to come you once she’s more open, she will. If you keep being an overbearing presence and push harder, she will associate you as being a needy burden in her life. The ball’s in her court, you only want to pursue and be with people who value you and make you a priority. Otherwise, you will be chasing and make yourself miserable trying to read hot and cold emotions.
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