We've been together for 3 years and loving together for 2.5. We're eachother best friends. He works construction and will have to go to a site out of town for 3-4 months in a few weeks. I have a lot of stressful things going on right now (applying for grad school, a chronically sick dog, money stress) and this on top of it makes it really hard to deal. All I want to do is cry. I am not mad at him and I know neither of us has control over the situation.
I know separation can be good, but how do I deal? I will be able to see him some weekends which is helpful but my whole daily routine is going to change and something about going to bed without him is really hard and sad. How do I get myself through this time? How can I care for myself and foster our relationship?
Tldr; long term partner who I live with will be working out of town for 3-4 months. We're best friends. I have a lot of stressful events going on/coming up. He's the only person in my whole life who has always been there for me, and me for him. I'll be able to see him some weekends but I struggle because I have an anxious attachment. How do I care for myself and our relationship during this?
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