My friend introduced me to his friend. We exchanged phone numbers. He followed me on social media.
A week later we went to get a dinner which went well. He also made a few points which really made me want to get to know him more. He texted almost right after, saying he enjoyed the date. Also my friend told me later that that guy said he liked how intelligent I was but thought I was shy so he would like to get to know me more.
We did exchange a few texts arranging a second date, and had it 2.5 weeks later. He offered to have a movie night, either at his place, or mine, or movie theater. I told him if there is no specific movie he wants to see in the theater, I could come to his place.
I did. While watching the first movie, he shared blanket with me. Since the first movie was ok, we decided to watch one more. He kept getting closer the entire time. When the second movie ended, he said he wasn’t tired anymore and we can watch the third one. While watching it, he put his hand around and was softly touching me.
But I really didn’t know how to reciprocate because he would touch me and then stop, and we were in a position that made it hard for me to even face him. I did however lean my head against his chest and put my hand on his chest as well.
Eventually the third movie ended and we didn’t do anything but he asked if I was tired. I said I wasn’t but I could clearly see he was so I said I would leave and let him rest. I cleaned up cups and everything. He offered to stay the night which I wanted but: he was tired and I wanted to be respectful of his privacy and I already had my shoes on and everything when he offered. Also, I am not a type of a person who jumps into sexual stuff just like this. I need more time to get to know that person. And I wasn’t 100% sure what he wanted if he says he likes how intelligent I am but then touches me on a second date. I am very confused.
He then walked me to my car and asked to text once I get home. We hugged.
I did text him once I got home, and next morning he said he is glad and he had fun. I replied good morning. A few hours later I texted apologizing if I made him feel confused by leaving and explained myself. I also invited him to a third date and said I was interested.
He apologized if he made me feel uncomfortable and agreed that third date sounds fun. But said he doesn’t know his schedule right now.
I am honestly not sure where to take it. I do know he is using dating apps and I can’t stop thinking “what if me not taking a better action during the movie night made him dislike me?” I just feel like now he is not interested and can find a girl who will be more proactive in that sense.
But man I like this guy and didn’t feel like rushing things cuz even being by his side makes me feel so great 😭 I now feel like a failure and I hope he responds with the time for the third date…
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