I find it difficult to begin a serious relationship, and I haven’t been in a serious relationship in almost 3 years since I started college.
I always get hit on by men and have men contacting on social media and dating apps, but very few of them want to start a serious relationship with me. I’ll hang out with a guy for a couple of weeks, everything is great, but then either I lose interest, or the guy just randomly informs me, oh we can’t hang out now my girlfriend won’t let me. I thought it was because I wasn’t meeting the right guys, so I joined a few campus interest and academic groups. But I find those more “serious” types are never pro-active with me. They are perfectly nice and I think attracted to me, but no one has asked me to be their girlfriend. Same luck, sometimes they will magically get a girlfriend that I personally think is not as attractive as I am and not as connected as we were. Some how I always end up being the side piece.
I don’t know if it’s because of how I carry myself or present myself or if there is something wrong with my approach. I think I am funny, easy going, extraverted, and I am very social. I don’t like to put too much pressure or start drama, I usually keep things fun and casual. I do drop heavy hints though. I sometimes feel like men aren’t assured I am into them enough. Any tips and advice?
Edit: I do have men that profess their love to me, but I always find it really difficult to tell their sincerity. People can be so dramatic haha. I’ve had people just on the street or on the subway come up and tell me I am the most beautiful girl they’ve ever seen and try to give me their contact, I have guys and even girls text me after a group hangout that they think they are in love with me. Which all I find to be just be kind of impossible. A lot of guys will DM me that they love me or something, but those are obviously not true. How to tell if someone is truly into you?
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