about six months ago I (21F) met a guy (22) through a friend. we immediately dive into a two hour long conversation about books. later, we find a plethora of other passions to talk about. the two of us can talk for hours, even this long after meeting. we are very compatible in interests and experiences and ideologies, yada yada yada.
ok, so, after about month three, people start to ask if we’re dating. and, i’m curious too. the chemistry seems to be there. but one night, I hear someone ask him why we aren’t together, and he says “I just don’t want to.”
about a week after this, we find out he has a secret girlfriend but they’re long distance. though they are dating, we keep hanging out, and people keep asking what’s up.at this point, i’m also confused as to what’s going on. and maybe i’m looking into this too much and maybe i’m being too hopeful but in person, there is chemistry there.
should I ask him what’s going on? or should I just enjoy the friendship?what do you guys think is going on?
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