Dated coworker for a month. Gained feelings. It ended. Trying to get over it, but how? I see her everyday.

Started working at this company a few months ago. Got to know a coworker pretty well and we hit it off and started dating.

Things got complicated in her life so she ended it with me after a month, but I had already gained a lot of feelings and felt pretty bummed.

I am trying to go no contact, but I see her everyday and I try to avoid her. Can literally see her from my desk. She sometimes messages me on slack for work related stuff, and I reply short and prompt. One time she messaged some non work related stuff and I ignored it. After that she’s been acting weird around me too, and now it just feels weird in general because I’m purposely trying to avoid her.

This feels really hard to do and I need some advice.

Should I just try and be friendly with her? Should I try no contact as much as I possibly can? I NEED to get over her because I think about her a lot, but don’t want it to be weird in the workplace.

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