I think maybe I dropped the ball on this.. This might seem stupid to ask but I got out of a really long relationship in the winter and have dealt with a few douche bags since then.
I went to a party last weekend and from what I thought hit it off with a guy. We were talking getting to know one another, joking and flirting through the late afternoon/night at several points. I'm 32 and he is younger than me.
The party was hosted by a friend of a girl I play trivia with. The guy I was talking to is one of his good friends. So I thought he had been looking at me at several points before he started talking to me. I was talking in a group of people I had come over with and they left me alone with him. He made a joke about my face looking so sad when i lost a game that we had been playing in a group of people. So then we talked for a while. Later on another game was being played and someone asked him to join in. He said I'll think i'll go right here and wedged himself right next to me. So once again we were talking and joking and such. We talked a couple other times. Problem came when another guy at the party started talking to me..i wasn't interested in him but I was conversing with him so maybe that didn't appear to be the case. So I was sitting talking to guy I wasn't interested in. Guy who i was interested in came and sat near us but not within ear shot. However, we kind of fell into the same conversation and he moved his chair right next to mine. So i was now talking to guy i was interested in again. Asking all about each other, talking, flirting, joking. He went inside at one point. The guy I wasn't interested in tells me to find him before I leave so he can get my number. I just say ok. I notice from the backyard that guy i'm interested in is in the kitchen so I excuse myself to go the bathroom. When I come out of the bathroom he's now standing alone in the kitchen. So once again we are talking, relating to each other about things, flirting and at one point he playfully pushes me. I say I'm going to leave but I want to say bye to people outside..I would have felt rude if I had just left. Well I guess he had followed me outside. I'm talking to some people, saying goodbye...and then BAM..the guy who wanted my number comes up and asks me for it and i'm like ummmm..uhh just give me yours. I honestly did not know what to do in this moment. So i hear guy i'm interested in and his friend say that they are going to go inside and get ready to go to bed...they was a bunch of guys staying over the house. So i finish saying bye to people and go wait in the living room for my Uber. Guy i'm interested is in there alone. I say oh i hate when my uber goes from 4 to 10 minutes for arrival time. He said, Oh, is that how it goes? He doesn't really talk to me and other guys come into the living room. I just say bye to them and leave.
The next day I text my friend who invited me over and say I had a really good time. I didn't know what to say about the guy I was interested in. Maybe I'm dumb but she is very good friends with the host of the party who is very good friend of the guy I was interested in...I assumed he might he mentioned something to her about it. She said me too, thanks for coming, I'll see you soon. I've been thinking about how natural everything seemed with this guy and I kind of want to see what is up with it. Should I text her about it or there is a chance I might see her tomorrow night. Am I stupid to think this guy was interested in me?
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