I [24F] started talking to a girl [26F] back in May and asked her out but she was about to leave for 5 months for her field research (she’s a PhD student). We only talked one other time during this period she was gone (in September). She said she’d be back permanently in November after I hinted at the fact that I’d like to see her when she got back home. I know she’s home now, since she has been posting instagrams with her location and I was gonna reach out to see if she wanted to get drinks. I’ve decided that I have nothing to lose by trying to ask her out again. If she rejects me then at least I tried.
I know she’s probably busy with a lot since she is a PhD student, and someone on reddit had suggested that I message her saying something along the lines of “hey I know you’re most likely pretty busy lately, I’ve been a bit swamped with work and stuff also but would you like to grab some drinks this week?”
Would this be the best way to approach asking her? Showing her that I’m busy also but I’d like to make time for her? I don’t want to seem too pushy Incase she’s not interested and I don’t want to hold her to what she said about being permanently back in November either.
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