This is an update from my last post: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/9s83qx/is_it_rude_to_ask_her_if_she_still_has_tinder/
So, we kept seeing each other, as friends as she wanted it to be. There were a few days i was busy to the point i couldn't text her, so when i finally texted after a couple of days from not hearing from her, she told me that she missed me and she would like to meet up and see me. That evening we meet at my apartment and i cooked dinner for her (i'm a very good cook so i took it as my chance to impress her, which actually turned out a great idea. She loved seeing me cook and she enjoyed the food and the environment very much), after dinner we were talking in my couch and there was this moment where we were just staring at each other in a very strange silence, so i decided to make a move and kissed her, even though i knew that would make her uncomfortable. She liked it and we kept on making out, she stayed over, we spent the night talking about what we want, about what should be do and about what we are to each other. We decided that we both want to be with each other, so we begun to be something more than friends, we would be boyfriend and girlfriend but we wouldn't actively tell to people, unless we are asked about it (we both appreciate our privacies).
Many people told me to stop seeing her, that she was just "friendzoning" me. I must say that i even thought about it myself a couple of times, but this is hard to say from the outside, without knowing how each party is feeling or is thinking. I felt that this waiting was a bad sign, but in the end it helped us make it clear of how we fell for each other and that we would like to be together our way. I'm glad i waited, she is worth it and much more.
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