First time posting here and I'm super shy to do so, but I'm wondering what on earth has gone wrong! (tl;dr at bottom)
I was a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding this past weekend and one of the groomsmen (I'll call him J) was a really great guy. A lot of wedding activities were stuffed into this past weekend, like the combined bachelorette/bachelor party, rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, and actual wedding, and I got to know him a little bit during these activities.
He's the worship leader at my friend's church and I like to sing as well, and when we did karaoke at the bachelor party, I sang a solo and I felt like he was getting attracted to me. I was his partner (you know how they pair a bridesmaid and a groomsman for the wedding ceremony) and when we were paired together for rehearsal, etc. he would smile and talk to me (we talked a little about music, etc.) and when events ended each night I felt like he was making an effort especially to saying goodnight to me. Many people kept telling me that we looked good together over the course of these three days (including one of the other groomsmen), and I think he had to have overheard them sometimes too, people were saying it so frequently.
During the wedding reception, I asked J to dance during a slow song, he said yes, and we had a lot of fun, smiling a lot as we danced. It was a wonderful moment. I was shy but I looked into his eyes as much as I could! We talked and had fun. If it matters, I had also earlier asked another groomsman (B) to dance to a faster song, and later on B asked me to dance to a slow song and I couldn't figure out a polite way to say no.
After the wedding ended, we bridesmaids and groomsmen were cleaning up the reception hall and J kept helping me, bringing me what I needed (bags, etc.).
Finally, as we loaded up the cars, the other groomsman, B, asked me out and I declined as graciously as I could. I'm not sure if J overheard that or not. But shortly after, he came over from loading the car and asked for my number, and my last name to put into his contacts, and then called so that I'd have his number. I don't remember what was said next (I was too happy and it was the end of a long day) but whatever we said I had the impression that he'd contact me next.
That was a week ago . . . and I'm so confused why he hasn't even texted me. He didn't strike me as a player, and we have mutual friends he could ask in case he lost my number somehow. I can come off a little shy sometimes, and from what I've read online sometimes guys don't want to call girls who don't seem into them. But I was!
He's not the only guy I'm talking to right now, but he seemed like a great person and I'd like to see where things go with him. What happened and what do I do??
tl;dr A great guy came over to get my number after a wedding we were in last weekend, but hasn't called in a week. What happened? What action can I take?
Edit to add: There wasn’t any alcohol at the wedding, so no “beer goggles. . .”
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