Let me get right into it, so recently I met this girl at college who used to go to my high school. She's a year older than me, pretty cute, has a great personality, really nice but she is really confusing or I'm completely stupid.
She catches me sitting by myself on my phone and we meet up like old friends. I was less into girls in high school, didn't really care just wanted to play games up until my senior year but at that point, it was too late. Anyway, she hits me up asking to hang out and we go to the computer lab where she explains to me what she's been up to for the past year and she instantly wants my number to send me "classes" that are easy to take. I gladly take her number. (Btw I have an insanely high hormone problem, I get hard over like every girl and it's insanely hard to control)
So next day without warning she hits me up asking to hang out in the morning before class and I'm late in the morning and I catch the trolley to school and ask her where she is but its too late and she tells me she is going to do a test with a friend. Next day she hits me up again before my midday class asking to hang out in front of a building and I go this time with a friend, and I tell him "If it's only me and her, leave but if there are more guys stay so I don't look like a loser". Lucky for me, it was only me and her and some random guy who was just sitting close by. I have a huge problem where I can make jokes for hours and talk for hours on end with 0 issues with people I'm not sexually attracted to but the second I start talking to a girl I'm interested in, I go completely robot.
So we just sit there talking and she tells me she likes astrology and she is reading my charts or whatever and I'm over here just going along with it. About 40 minutes of just talking to her, she tells me she dislikes current conditions and she wants to move out but she has no money and she should "find a sugar daddy" or something. I laugh it off but it hurts a bit. I go to work and after work, I hit her up and we talk for a bit about astrology, her favorite youtube channels and stuff along those lines when then the convo goes completely dry. She starts responding with 2/3 words responses like "yea that's cool" "that's crazy" and I'm confused as to how the convo went this way. I tried hitting her up the next day and its dry as well, and I have no way to start the convo because I don't understand what to say.
Basically, I'm confused on how to go from here, I'm interested and I want to show that without getting caught in the friend zone by not showing my intentions but confused as to what she wants. Looking for a 2nd opinion, thank you.
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