We are both seniors in high school. I met this girl just under a year ago at a party I threw at my crib. She's really friendly and easy to talk to, but I've heard that she's had issues with anxiety/depression. We're more acquaintances than friends, but are fairly familiar with each other. Also, she broke up with a guy who was cheating on her a just over a month ago.
A few weekends back I went to a party at the house of one of her close friends, so naturally she was there too. I was sitting on a couch with her and one of my boys, and when he left she scooted up super close next to me. She pulled a blanket over us because she was "cold." We bullshitted for a few hours, and she gave me signs (rubbing thighs, blanket, putting leg on me, feeling my hand, using a fucking meme as an excuse to let me know her nipples are pierced). Also, when she got up she looked at me and said, "Hey I call Fives, you heard me right? I'll be right back!" When it was getting late I dapped up her and some others, and left.
Couple days go by, and after considering asking her on a date, I do. She says yes, and agrees to just smoking and chillin at my place on the upcoming Thursday. Thursday rolls around and I ask her if she's gonna need a ride. She tells me that today wouldn't work because she feels shitty and had a shit week. I asked her "what's wrong?" but she gave me a very vague answer, "a lot of shit." Not a good sign, but she does tell me to hit her up next week to see if things clear up. The next Tuesday I snap her asking how she's been lately. We talk for a bit, she says she got declined at a job interview that day, and is looking for a job. I ask her if she's still down to chill, and she says yes again. I tell her to just lmk when she'll be free so we can figure out a time that works for both of us, she agrees and says she'll lmk when she figures out her schedule. 6 days go by and she hasn't said anything. Also, my friend told me she has only been to school like twice in the last two weeks. I hit her up pointing out how it's been a minute and she never got back to me, and how I wanted to check up on her. She says that we could chill the upcoming Thursday, I tell her that should work. Thursday rolls around and I ask her if 4:30 is okay. She responds saying that today doesn't actually work for her, and then offered to skip her gym class at some point next week to take my bus home and chill (her gym period is 9th, and the majority of buses come right after 8th). I told her that I'd let her know when next week.
Is she interested? This has kinda been drawing out, and I want to figure out if this it's worth the time to start dating this girl. I can't read her for the life of me. She comes onto me at the party and agrees to chill on multiple set dates, but then has excuses for why she can't pull thru on the day of each. She did offer to take a cut for gym class to take my bus home to chill, but like I said earlier she's barely been in school lately. It's been 2.5 weeks since we originally agreed on a date, and I feel like she would've flat out told me by now if she wasn't actually interested, but instead she keeps pushing the date further.
TLDR: Girl I've been acquaintances with for about a year comes onto me at a party. Few days later I decide to ask her on a date and she says yes. Day rolls around and she tells me today won't work because she had a "shitty week." I hit her up the next week, as she requested, and she agrees to the date again. I tell her to lmk when she's free so we can work a day/time out. She agrees to, but 6 days pass and she says nothing. I hit her up about it and she says we could chill the upcoming Thursday. Thursday comes around, and she says today won't work for her, then offered to skip her gym class at some point next week to take my bus home and chill. Is she interested?
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