I used to post generally when I thought things and situations were challenging me but for a change I want to post something positive.
Some little backstory from today, me and this girl I work with got chosen to run an event today for work. It included us driving to the next town over, setting up and supervising the event for 4 hours together. When we worked together, we never got to really talk to each other but we would joke around here and there to make the day go by a little faster and to just lighten the mood in a rather stressful work environment. So we were friendly with each other beforehand. Plus I always found her to be extremely cute and actually genuinely funny so it’s safe to say I had a little bit of a crush on her. Today we both knew it was going to be just us for most of the event so we would spend the in between time just honestly goofing off and getting to know each other. It felt so great connecting. It used to be such an absent feeling for me but out of no where that feel-good-butterflies-in-your-stomach kind of feeling came back to me. I learned that she was going to be working at our job significantly less so I would barely see her. Maybe at most once a month she would come into our job to work and there will very slight chance I would be able to see her then. I want to completely find a new job and she wished me well about it. At this point, I asked myself if I should go for it because this may be our last opportunity by ourselves together. I started to doubt myself a bit saying “she Is most likely saying no. I don’t she likes you like that, bro.” But then I would regret not going for it and I asked myself one more thing. “Why wouldn’t she like me?” I asked her out for drinks so we could hang out and get to know each other more. She said she would like to but she was not sure on how her availability would be like since her position requires her to be on call almost everyday. It’s not a definitive yes so I’ll take it as a no and hey that’s okay. I was so proud to put myself out there and for going for it. A year ago, I don’t think I would be able to muster out those words.
Guys and girls, don’t doubt yourself. You know your worth. “Why wouldn’t they like you?” You got some amazing qualities in there. Sure it didn’t pan out like I wanted to be ideally but who knows, that maybe can turn into a yes one day because I still salvaged a form of social media to keep in touch with her.
After it all, I thought to myself “what if I didn’t just do that? You’d probably be upset and disappointed in yourself, DontSaveYourself.” But I guess we’ll never know!
TL;DR: finally had the opportunity to ask out a girl I’ve been crushing on and felt great doing it. And I urge YOU to just go for it on that person you like. You’ll feel great after doing that one thing you should have done!
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