Embarrassed myself during sex with a friend and not sure how to go about it

This is is a healthy mix of TIFU and seeking advice.

I have been friends with my ex since we broke up about a year ago and recently she suggested that we try being FWB, since us being in a relationship doesn't work for reasons I won't delve into.

We made plans over a week ago to hang out in her dorm tonight and I've been really looking forward to this night all week. I enjoy her company and the sex is great, we both agreed that tonight would be a great way for us to de-stress. As soon as I pulled into her school I knew something was a little off and I started getting mild heartburn. No big deal I thought, nothing I can't ignore.

Fast forward to when we start making out. I have the urge to burp but I suppress it for the duration of foreplay. I stood up to get a condom and was finally able to let it out but it was...painful? It left a horrible burning sensation in my throat so I drank some water, which did nothing.

So now we're fully going at it, and about 20 minutes in I just knew I was gonna throw up. I hopped off the bed and announced it, asked where I can puke, and just let it all out in her garbage can. I felt HORRIBLE. I told her to just stay in bed and I'd take care of everything since it was my fault after all. I fully cleaned and disinfected her garbage can and made sure there was no stray puke lying around.

After it was all said and done, I finally laid down next to her and we started cuddling. She asked if I wanted to continue and I really did but I just did not physically have it in me. We continued cuddling and talking and she kinda just brushed it off like it never happened, but I still feel guilty af for ruining an otherwise great time.

I am worried that she'll think I threw up because I'm not attracted to her, which is definitely not the case. I think she is beautiful. Is there a good way for me to tell her that she was not the reason for me vomiting? Or should I just plan another night with her and try not to fuck it all up again?

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