I'm not entirely certain if this is the right place for this but my girlfriend and I (19M & 18F) have been dating for a month and half now and I can say that it has been completely wonderful so far. I've never dated anyone who I feel I can actually relate to so cohesively and I feel really, really happy with her.
The reason I wanted to make this post though was to get some advice about sex. She's told me that she is pretty inexperienced and that I am the first person that she's ever been with. Because of that, most of our intimate moments together have been mostly limited to just making out. I don't have a crazy amount of experience but have had enough where making out alone is starting to not be as fun as it used to be. I've only tried to take it further a few times and I always ask before doing a single thing. Every time she's taken a second to think and told me not yet, at which point I stop and go back to whatever we were doing before.
I want to make it abundantly clear that I don't want to push her into doing anything that she's not comfortable with. It's her choice and I've told her several times that she gets to set the pace for us. My question is how do I go on from here? How do I know when she's ready without asking her every time which I feel like would be pressuring her?
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