I went on a tinder date with a girl. We ended up making out and cuddling topless at her dorm. Over the next few days we played a game where we ask each other questions on Snapchat. She asked if I was a virgin, and I said yes because I was religious until recently. Anyway things with this girl are great, mostly. We've been on four dates that went on for over eight hours and text every day.
What has me in a rut is she was sending mixed signals. We've been dating for a bit over a week and she said she wanted to take things slow at first but we ended up both wanting to get a hotel room because we both don't live alone and it's hard. After every date she wants to spend the night with me. So naturally I just talk to her about it, ask her what slow means to her. You've gotta understand we've hung out for over 30 hours already in just a week, and are already doing everything but full on sex.
It turns into a big discussion about me not having much dating history (she asked), her worried I'm just lonely, that I should go on more dates to make sure I really like her. The conversation was honestly a bit ridiculous and I told her it was stressful to hear all. After I told her about two girls I know this year that wanted to date me but didn'twork out because I was not into them at all she let it go and said she's probably projecting other relationships onto me. She told me she's glad we talked because communication is important but she nervously told me we could start having sex after another week but I told her I'm not rushing her I just wanted to know boundaries and what she's comfortable with.
We went on another date and things were back to normal and at the end of the night she told me she really likes me. It just feels a little weird to me now because I'm afraid to ever make a move now.
So what should I do? We are having a 5th date in a few days and I'm just planning on getting to know her more and let time pass.
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