The honest-to-God truth? Let them go. Whomever it is that you’re exhausting yourself with. Just breathe deeply and blow them out.
Focus on yourself. It isn’t selfish. Do you know what happens when you focus on yourself? You start to see everything without rose-tinted glasses. You start to look inward at what you truly need. What you crave. Get off your ass and start exercising. If that’s too much, just get up and walk a little. Then the very next day, walk a little further. Don’t skip days. Just do it. Every day. Maybe you can run like me. Sometimes I don’t know if I’m running from something or to somewhere, but either way, it feels damn good to know I have the option. Listen to some good, upbeat music that you like.
You know what will happen? Everyone you walked away from will crawl back, apologizing. And if they don’t? Fuck them. You’ve now realized they’re not worth the energy you’re trying to put out in the universe. I mean it. You are worth what you put into this life.
Maybe someone will come along and all the pieces will fall together. And if you’re like me, you will very cautiously, slowly, and openly fall. You’ll be honest and more vulnerable this time. You’ll be respectful and expect the same in return. You will no longer place value where there was none reciprocated.
It might not work out, that’s okay. But you will let things take the natural course because you can’t control relationships. You only have the power to control what you’re putting out there. When you take care of yourself first, you’ll always have you to fall back on, and you’re wonderful. You’ve got this.
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