I’ve been seeing this girl for a little over a month and everything’s gone well except we haven’t even kissed, cuddled, or anything like that. It sometimes still feels like I’ve never talked to her before and we’re both sometimes nervous around each other still. We hangout like 2-3 times a week, like every week and text each other everyday, and we still feel nervous around each other. I think think she is more so than I am, but still.
She’s even said how shes felt bad that she was shy or awkward, and one time I felt like that too so I’ve told her I’ve been there too. Sometimes she’s nervous around me and will fidget or play with her hands or just be anxious overall, so I think she’s just an anxious person by nature. This kind of makes it hard to make moves bc I feel like she’ll get super nervous and uncomfortable, and I wouldn’t want her to feel like that.
When I held her hand it was so cute because she was so stiff and nervous (as was I) but it’s kind of hard to not feel like I’m doing something bad since she’s uncomfortable with it, but in a good way I guess. It took a lot of courage to do that, and I don’t think I would be able to just kiss her out of the blue because it would be a really big deal. I kind of sounds like we’re really young but we’re freshmen at uni, so it’s not like we’re little kids.
I think I just need to break down the touch barrier but it’s kind of hard when it feels awkward I guess. We’re both each other’s first relationship so I feel like we both don’t know what to do. Her parents are also very religious and strict, so I feel those types of girls are always scared to express that type of emotion too.
I’ve said hi to her parents too like only once and they just seem strict and very traditional and conservative. The dad actually gave me kind of a dirty look, and I was smiling at him, but I’ll just chalk that up to dads being dads.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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