Hiya! Here’s my first post. I’m on mobile, I think that matters so I’m sorry for anything funky.
My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years and have worked together for 1 year. He and I have been through the ups and downs but in the end have worked everything out and are still going strong. A big thing we need to work on is being open and honest with our feelings. I’ve been super open the past few weeks about how I’ve been feeling, I’ve been trying really hard to make sure I’m trying to explain how and what I feel. The past few days I’ve been feeling a huge lack of intimacy. I don’t really feel loved or like I matter. But every time I bring it up I feel like I’m being pushed away or like he’s diminishing my feelings by saying sorry but not really doing anything to reassure me. At work he’s really distant and doesn’t really talk to me often, if at all. But he’s always super vocal with everyone else and super helpful with everyone else. When I try to talk to him or make jokes he just says he’s not talkative or in the mood to talk. He seems to get happier when I’m about to leave.
It makes me feel like I’m not important and like my feelings don’t matter. How do I stop being a big baby and get over it?
(Sorry if this is word vomit)
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