This is going to sound controversial. I've slept with a number of men, mostly in my late teens and very early twenties. The ones with the biggest dicks- two were cheaters and one was a rapist (the BIGGEST dick of all couldn't BELIEVE I would say no), and the other biggest guys were very passive (felt like gods gift to women) or the type to sleep with you and lead you on. "I'm just not ready for a relationship. Why are you making a big deal out of this? Why don't you come over later?"
The guys with the SMALLER penises- 4 to 5 inches, they treated me the best. I'm an affectionate, attractive, honest woman who is fun to be around, so I'm not just saying "ok what does the guy have to offer". The ones with the SMALLEST penises have treated me the best and been the kindest to me. Taking me on dates and paying (I like this because it tells me that I can trust him if we have kids one day that he won't abandon or fail to provide if I sacrifice my career to stay home and raise babies and cook for a whole family 3 meals a day, clean and drive etc-I'm no gold digger but the smaller men have been the most generous and I felt the most secure). Being sweet, affectionate and emotionally available. Wanting a relationship with me. Maybe the guys with big big dicks (between 7 and 9in) feel like they don't need to do much to keep a woman satisfied? Actually, now that I think about it, most every guy I've ever met with a big big dick (7+inches probably 15% of all men) has been a cheater. Used me to cheat, cheated on me, cheated on their women who were not me, etc. Is this ALL men with a big dick? No I'm just talking my personal experience as an attractive, fit woman dating men for the sole goal of love and of course when I fall in love with someone I dream of what it would be like to have a family with them.
I think the 6" are a mixed bag. They can go either way. Really nice guys who you are pleased to date, but 60% of these guys thought they were also God's gift to woman despite not being that big.
Do I have a source? No. It's my personal experience with 20 or so men. Seems like a lot, but if you slept with a new person every 4 months in your Teens and early twenties (not uncommon to experiment and plus I'm not ashamed because if I'm celibate for 4 months at a time, I'm hardly "getting around".. anyway...)
The point is, I get excited these days if a guy has an average penis. Very excited. They can still feel good and I know that while he might still cheat, you never know what a person is gonna do, my personal experience is that these men treat you wayyyyyy better- consistent calls, consistent respect, dates (not just Netflix and suckmydick), commitment. Things that make me happy since I'm very affectionate and loyal. Besides, you can have sex more often because with big guys, they often want to ram you, and even if it's just "regular sex", your vagina can get swollen and sore and it HURTS to have sex with a large penis without LOTS of natural lubrication or artificial lube. If I want rough sex, it's going to hurt after 15 minutes or less with a big guy. Sore. And then you need 3 days off so that your puffy, swollen vagina can recover.
So, ladies and gents, consider dating a guy with a smaller penis. 5 inches is the sweet spot. Don't get me wrong, I treat men with respect, I don't lie to them but I'm very kind about their sensitivity. These men KNOW they aren't huge. These men are often more humble and treat you better than the big guys. I'm dating a tall, strong, handsome man who is such a gentleman. He doesn't need to have a big dong to truly satisfy me. And I bet there are some well-endowed, humble men who are loyal out there. In my experienc... You are going to find way more "I'm just looking for something casual" guys who don't treat you very well. I used to think "I hope my next bf has a nice big dick" but you know what? I'm satisfied with the bare minimum- a penis that is big enough, thick enough. Give him a chance. Don't be penis elitist.
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