What the title says! It's about the guy I like, don't be afraid to be brutally honest.
Okay I'll get to explaining, and I apologize in advance for my English, I'm hispanic!
This is kind of long, so I'll put a TL;DR at the bottom
Basically I [F16] met this guy [M18] at a party the beginning of this year, we saw each other in a couple other parties, and started talking on August. We texted everyday and most of the day (this was via Instagram bc in my country Snapchat isn't as used as it is in USA, just a clarification) and it was rare to go just one day without talking. We sent eachother memes, responded to our stories, etc. We talked with the obvious implication that we were physically attracted to eachother and wanted to hookup, nothing serious.
So after 3 months of just texting and never seeing eachother in person, he gained the courage to ask me to hang out; this was around the time he graduated high school. So we agreed, he picked me up one day and long story short, we made out in his car lol. Ever since we kept meeting a lot, like almost every day, I caught feelings, and he seemed to have caught feelings too.
So one day, after a month of this, I decided to ask him what we were so I could establish some kind of relationship between us, since I was confused because I always preferred dating over hooking up, and I didn't know what kind of intentions he had. I didn't pressure him at all and let HIM be the one to answer. After a bit of conversation, he told me we were "going out" (which, in my country, means we are in a kind of 'free trial' with the intention of dating officially in the future. We both want to have something serious with each other, is what it means.) I was super happy with this, because he is such a sweet, genuine guy and we had a lot in common.
So fast forward a day later, he says he wants to talk. I didn't think much of it, so he came to my house. We talked and he said he thought about it, and for reasons of work, study, etc he tells me he's not in the position to have something serious. He told me he genuinely likes me, and he didn't want me to think we hung out just as a hookup, because he did catch feelings. Mind you; It really took me by surprise because, the month we've been hanging out he gave me a lot of signs that he didn't want to just frick around. I could've been mistaken, but this impression wasn't something that I made up in my head. Anyways, I understood, we handled it very maturely but it did break my heart because I really liked him.
This was about a week ago, we haven't spoken since, because he suggested he'd give me my space if I needed it (i agreed). But just a couple of days ago, I noticed he still has me on his best friends list on IG, and interacts with my stories (like polls and stuff). I don't want to get my hopes up and say he still likes me and wants to try again or something, but I'm pretty confused by this! Do you have any advice that could be helpful?
TL;DR: Talked to this boy a long time just to hookup. We met up and caught feelings in a month. We agreed we were going out, but the very next day he 'broke up' with me saying he liked me but wasn't in the position to have anything serious. A week later, he's showing interest (? and interacting with my ig stories. What could this be?
Any advice is helpful, and feel free to ask questions!
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