This might turn into a rant about dating apps but whatever lol. Anyways, I met a guy on hinge and we went out a couple times (there’s another post about it on my profile). He’s the first guy I’ve been out with in a year and second guy overall. He said he would message me after our last date but he never did and I noticed that he unmatched me on hinge. He still looks at my story on Instagram and I have his phone number. I was contemplating sending him a “merry Christmas” message but I mostly just want to know why he unmatched me. Would it be inappropriate to send him something like this:
“Hey, I hope this doesn’t come across as bitchy, but you said you would message me and I haven’t heard from you in a couple days. It also appears that you’ve unmatched me on hinge. I just wanted to know what made you change your mind.
Tbh I don’t have a lot of experience dating. But I wanted to apologize if I did anything wrong and would like to know so I don’t make the same mistakes next time.”
God, this is why I said I would never use a dating app. I really liked this guy and I want to feel the exhilaration of falling in love with someone. But it’s impossible to get that feeling from these apps. You have to guard your emotions because It’s too easy to have no empathy. We’re basically just shopping for a partner and someone will ghost you if someone better comes along. It’s so superficial I don’t like being treated like a commodity.
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