Hello all, I'm (M25), single, no kids and is still at home with mom. I've been single for 10 years, haven't had much action in between time either. I took a break from dating for awhile, cause I saw how my generations dating scene was, an it wasnt for me. I've been wanting to get back out there, but really nervous about it. I feel it's hard at my age to find someone with me living with my mom (I'm definitely not trying to stay here forever or anything), I dont know how women would feel about it. I love, love. I love that feeling, an then knowing that she feels the same way back is, idk such a great feeling. I wanna meet someone an be with them, miss them, hug an kiss them. I kinda beat myself up about it, I've been told I'm a pretty attractive guy an I have some nice features.
The last 3 women I've tried to talk to, either just got out of a relationship or we're in one an hid the signs pretty well. Alot of women say I'm gonna make whoever I'm with very happy, an should deserve all of it. I am a nice guy, love to laugh, make jokes, learn new things, listening to what you have to say, helping anyway I can. I'm not a club person, dont mind saying in, but if I got out not for too long or just be around good friends an people. I consider myself an ambivert (introvert an extrovert (hoping I spelled it right)). I like talking to people, yet also hate them lol. Im open minded an can talk just about anything (hate that it sounds like I'm toting my own horn, just tryna give a picture lol).
I treat people how I wanna be treated. So women tend to just befriend(friendzone) me cause I'm friendly an I guess I'm not like other guys an get straight to it. I like to get to know them first. I do love giving compliments, letting them know that their outfit looks nice or their hair looks good, I know women like to hear these things. You know, someone acknowledging what they did to get ready for the day. I crush really easily, so in my head we're dating, having fun, great great sex, on occasion I'll see a child (depending on the lady), an then it goes away pretty fast cause I'll see someone else.
I know what kind of woman I want, I feel like shes the rare type an maybe thats why I feel like I havent haven't gotten any luck. I have insecurities (as well all do). I sweat alot, I'm a pretty big guy, I feel that I can be to weird, but love a great conversation about life an goals she wants to accomplish an try an help her achieve those goals.
When it's all said an done my biggest insecurity is my penis size. Its average, (which in guys world, thinking they know women, its small) an im currently trying to lose weight just to get it bigger (the shxt we do for women lol). I know some women dont mind it, but I feel like a inch an a half more would be nice, an some more hang time lol. Not only that, but I have the opposite of ED. It doesnt take much for me to get erect. Even something simple as a hug (depending on the person). With all that, my sex experience isnt that high, because who wants to date a guy where whenever you guys just cuddle he gets a boner. I'm afraid their going to get tired of that alone in itself. I'm scared I'm gonna be alone forever cause it's the same pattern, and I live in my head too much (even though oddly I know I'll find someone).
Sorry for the length, I've had this build up in for years an never said it outloud, this all kinda of just poured out 😅. Could really use some advice/help. Feel free to ask questions I'd be glad to answer them
Thanks
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