So about a week and a half ago after my last final exam, I asked a girl from my art class out for coffee. She seemed into it and we added each other on Snapchat. We chatted on there for a few days, made tentative plans to go to Starbucks and go Christmas shopping together. She even offered to drive an hour to come to me rather than each driving a half hour and meeting in the middle as I suggested. Then she ended up being busy the day we were going to go.
We continued chatting, getting to know each other a little bit, we originally planned to go this past Friday, so on Friday afternoon I let her know I would be free today (Sunday) and she said she'd let me know. We continued chatting late into Friday night till around 2 am. Snapchat has been buggy on my phone since a recent update so I asked for her number so we could switch to texting. I woke up on Saturday to a Snapchat with her number and she said texting is better anyway since Snapchat drains her battery. All the while she uses a bunch of emojis and cutesy language and they've stayed consistent.
So I sent her a text Saturday morning saying hi and telling her it was me. A few hours later she responded saying hey. I waited about 40 minutes since I was working on something, I said hey back and asked what she was up to that day.
So that was 3 pm Saturday, it's now 8 pm Sunday night, never heard back. I was kinda surprised she never responded and I really don't want to bug her or be a creep and retext her if she doesn't want to be bothered. She's more of a homebody shy girl rather than a wild partyer if that's relevant. Obviously I'd love to go out with this girl or even just maintain a friendship since she's such a sweetheart, but something feels weird about double texting her after 24 hours if she isn't interested. But that would honestly seem odd given the fact that she confirmed both in person a week and a half ago and on Snapchat a week ago that she was interested in meeting for coffee, and we've only discovered more shared interests since then and I can't recall anything unpleasant coming up chatting on Snapchat. It does make me wonder if the text went through but idk.
TL:DR
Had fun chatting with a girl for a week on Snapchat, she seemed into meeting for coffee. Switched from Snapchat to texting, I said hi and let her know who it was, she acknowledged it was me and said hi (so I know I had the right number), I said hey and asked how her day was going. Day and a half later and she never responded. Should I text again or cut my losses and assume I was bugging her?
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