I get male attention, but no one ever really fawns over me. I watch men gush over other women, and I feel like I never get that kind of reaction. It makes me second guess my attractiveness, and I get jealous.
Other women will tell you of their stories with men taking them on exotic vacations, paying for their salon appointments, going out shopping and men offering to pay for their clothes or handbags. What kind of dream world is that? Why does that never happen to me!? In better words, no one ever thirsts after me.
Men do like me, but not enough to be driven lust filled mad. No man has ever been attracted to me to the point where he offers to help me with rent or anything. Maybe I don’t exude enough sexual energy? I’m not comfortable being outrageously flirty, is that the key!?
Guys have never fought over me-I feel like I’m no ones dream girl. No one cares if they ever lost me, I’m never “the one that got away”. No one has ever been absolutely frantic over me. Guys never try to dote on me, or impress me.
No one ever sees me, and goes into cave man mode.
I watch how they look at other women, and they for sure never gaze at me like that. They may smile, but it’s never in a way that says they want me.
The most attention like that I ever get is maybe a random man will offer to buy me a coffee... I get cat called, but it’s not the same.
I’m not fat, or hideous. I’m tall and slim and well groomed. People tell me I have a poised and classy look. I’m kind of stoic, though. I don’t smile a lot, unless something funny happened. It’s kind of weird to just be smiling no reason.
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