Am I a bad sister?

I’m 20 years old. My mom is sick, my dad works all the time.

I am sibling of 7 kids.

The youngest are little brother who is 5, and a sister who is 10. And another sister who is 14.

Since my mom is sick, I have to take care of them.

And sometimes they get on my nerves and I feel like exposing.

I notice I call my little sisters and my little brother when I’m angry, are you stupid? We’re you dropped as a babe? Use your common sense?

And I’m starting to feel like I’m damaging them by talking to them like they are worthless because they aren’t not.

They all stand up to me saying no I wasn’t, which amazes me because they are strong and stand up for them self.

I think feel like everything I do I have to be are full because I don’t want them to ever turn out to be like me who is broken or turn out to be someone they hate .

I want them to live a happy life, to be confident, to love them self, to be self aware everything I’m not.

So can you please help me

I need advice on how I can do that for them.

I do give them compliments on their homework, I do say nice things to them, buy them nice things.

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