I (f24) saw my ex-boyfriend of almost 6 years (m25) out after two years of breaking up and it was like no time had passed

This relationship was the longest and most honest relationship I’ve had in my entire life. We were both in high school when we met and went through similar things with our families (parents being divorced, living with grandparents, etc.) we didn’t grow up in the same area but went to school together. We broke up because we weren’t making time for each other and we’re not agreeing on may things in our lives anymore. He was angry, I was jealous; we had so many things going on that there wasn’t enough time to make sense of it. We started dating when I was 17 he was 18 and broke up a few months after I turned 22. When breaking up we had no intention of getting back together we agreed that we would take our space and live our lives for ourselves I was emotional he was emotional but we both knew it needed to happen we said if we were to find each other in the right place in time we could reconsider.

So it’s been two years now we’ve seen each other out places before, I’ve seen his family he’s seen mine but we never spoke of anything really just a casual hi and bye. But this time he couldn’t shut up, I couldn’t shut up. All of my friends were there his friends were there it was like we were all in a time machine. But fast forward three months casually we keep talking after we see each other texting, going for coffee, he picks me up one day and says he don’t have time. Side note he’s never been good with time management (one of the reasons we broke up). I could never understand how everything else had a time but he was annoyed and stressed when it came to time with me. So before the world went upside down he decided he didn’t have time I was obviously upset because why bother with all of this and me? He could have talked to any other girl out that day but he was talking to me, texted me the next day we went for breakfast that week. For what?

Last thing, now that everything has stopped... he comes back.... has all the time in the world now, as does everyone else. I just need to know if I’m crazy? What am I supposed to think here it’s convenient? Does he mean it? Does he have no clue what the hell he wants? Do I? Do people forget why they loved someone to move on or do you just stop showing that person the reasons you fell in love with them?

Someone shed some light because I’m at a loss.

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