I'm sure it's common as you spend more of your life @ work than out in the world, but this is eating me up inside. I've had girls in the past where I love to see them and look forward to seeing them, but even the few I've dated I never felt this way as this girl at work. I've definitely been physically attracted to, or slightly more to coworkers in the past, but on a completely different level.
I miss her each night, I find every chance I can to spend time with her at work, which I probably just hang out 1 on 1 with her 2 hours a day some days. I thought she was cute when I first saw her, but from the moment I first had an extended talk with her she's just beautiful in every way. I've honestly never felt someone become a true friend so quickly, male or female.
I am terrified of risking that changing, she's my best friend there, but having been there a few months now I'd hate myself if I waited to long to find out if it could be more.
What are your guys views of asking a mutual friend coworker for her opinion? Sort of asking her if she thinks it would be a good idea or not? I don't think things would drastically change in our friendship if the mutual friend tells her I was asking. Honestly though I feel like it's going to eat my up inside wondering until I do find out. Otherwise I almost need to distance myself from her a little more because the more time I spend with her the more I am attracted to her. For reference I do feel she is flirty and treats me a whole other world differently than the rest of our coworkers and seems to gravitate towards me as much as I do her, so I don't think it's a long shot.
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