Me: 29M and her 29F Recently reconnected with a friend who I haven’t spoken to in a while and had great conversation via text. The friend was excited to hear from me and was very responsive in our exchange of texts. Some good teasing and flirty messages, and out of nowhere, she shares an internet post that reminds her of the time we hung out and did this activity together. She mentioned how it was her first and only time doing it, and how great of a day that was w/a smiley face. In hindsight, I think I gave her a half ass enthusiastic response. I responded with something along the lines of (keeping it vague because of anonymity), “was that the same area we did it and was it with the same people? Yeah, that was a memorable experience and glad we did it”. No emojis from me. Nothing. Leading up to that chat i would say I’ve matched her energy level, but using less emojis than her. Several hours later, no response. Keep in mind for several days she’s been responding literally within seconds of my texts, even tho I’m slow to respond cause I’ve been busy and sometimes take several hours to reply. I figure this time around she was busy, but I send her another text anyway about a song she should check out, but still, nothing. It’s been several days and I’m stuck on what move to make next. Two texts with no response and I think it’s because she put herself out there and made herself vulnerable and I didn’t have the greatest response showing the same enthusiasm. Additional background, we both have mutual friends and they’ve been trying to set us up for a couple of years now.
My current two options: 1) send another text 2) don’t send a text for several months and wait until I’m in her neck of the woods, visiting some other friends. Appreciate any feedback. Thanks.
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