So I (M24) started dating a former coworker (F24) after being friends for about a year. We started off as just friends at the beginning and then eventually was needing up hooking up. After about 4 months of hooking up we decided to start dating. She’s a super-outgoing extroverted girl with a lot of different groups of friends. Before we started hooking up she was the queen of getting guys to do things for her/ invited on boats and to lake houses by using her looks. Since we’ve started dating she still goes out on boats with random guys her friends know and I know these guys want to hook up with her because that’s just how dudes are. My thing is that Im confident she’s not cheating on me or anything. However I just feel kinda weird that she’s still out here finessing guys for things while dating me. I just feel wholly inadequate sometimes and I have no idea why she’s with me because clearly there’s things she wants that I don’t have. I just don’t understand what’s the end game for her. Like when are all the parties and events enough? I’m not some lame by any means, I can party but it’s like at this point in my life I’m kinda over it. Part of me feels disrespected like I’m not good enough for her. However I know I feel that way because I’m insecure about not having the big house or the fancy boat. I really don’t know what I should do because I think asking her to change is unfair but at the same time if I’m not happy with all of her choices then what am I really doing?
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