I (M23) met a girl (F20) on Tinder some time ago. She did an au pair year in my city. We matched and started to have contact. She was amazing. We had contact for almost 2 months and chatted, called and factimed for several hours. She gave me so much compliments and so I did. She said things like: "because of you I can think of luck again., I have never been treaten with so much kindness and respect." I felt great! I mean, I had so much feelings for this girl and I guess so did she. We decided to have a date. On that date SHE kissed me several times. We had an amazing time together.
At the same day, she messaged me in the evening: "I am not ready for a relationship, I just want to be alone. I cant give you mutual feelings."
I understood it, since I am an open minded person. Since I am nice, I stayed by her side. To help her through her tough times. I thought: "Maybe this girl never got treaten right?" But she got colder and colder by each day. So I decided to give up contact.
One month later, she was still not out of mind. I decided to contact her again. To tell her, that she has not to worry about her fear. That I want to take it on slowly and carefully. She replied: "I appreciate it, but I still have feelings for this one guy. I just want to be alone and concentrate on myself. I am not ready for anything serious atm."
I accepted it. I mean, it sounds understandbale right? I only asked her again for myself, with knowing: "Yes, I did everything for this girl." I was even ready to stay friends with her.
My friends motivated me to download Bumble. Who was one of my first suggestions with complete new pictures? right: her.
She lied to me since the very first day. I blocked her everywhere today.
So I want to give this advice on your way: when its to nice to be true: it is not true! There are so many fake people and snakes on these websites who are just doing these things cuz they are bored!
Take care of yourself!
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