Hey party people, I just found someone amazing for me after looking for a long time, so i just thought I'd share my process:
First, I've gotten plenty of dates over the years, but either we werent a good fit, the timing for one or both of us was off, or she was crazy (like how I got stalked). I usually don't go on more than one date with a girl because it's very clear that we aren't good for each other.
So, for 10 years, I've been utterly obsessed with making myself better in every way. How I communicate, how I think, my career, my ability to relate to people who are nothing like me, my looks, my style, my career, everything you can think of.
I didn't make myself better to fit some vision of what guys should be like, I make myself better to fit MY version of whoni want to be in the future. I have an incredibly strong idea of the type of person I want to be in the future, so I am continuously refining myself to be him.
And I've also been my genuine self with every girl (and person) from minute one. With this girl who's so good for me, our first conversation involved cannibalism and necrophilia jokes.
The trick is to be extremely confident in your actions because you know that because of who you are, you must take that action. So whether it's a terrible joke, telling a girl she's so impressive, whatever, you know that because you're you, the following action must happen
So being yourself burns through tons of girls, but you eventually find someone. Don't be afraid to be weird, someone will like it
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