I’ve not seen my SO for 2 months due to the pandemic.
She’s been going for her jogs everyday 2 times a day. 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the evening. Sometimes 2 hours in one go so she doesn’t have to come out again.
We’ve been quarantining at home for the past 2 months and haven’t seen each other apart from twice for 5-10 minutes.
Today I was coming back from outside in the car and I passed hers, I asked what she was doing, she said she’s doing her jogging. She was nearly halfway through.
I asked if she wanted to meet for a bit for a quick cuddle since I was passing by, she said:
- if we meet up, she won’t be able to complete her exercise for today
- she told her mum she would be back at 8pm (this was at 7:15pm)
I was kinda hurt by this, considering we’ve not seen each other for so long, I was passing by, and she wasn’t willing to sacrifice half of her exercise or even tell her mum she’ll be a bit late or even 5 minutes of her time - so I said fine never mind and left it like that.
On a normal day, if I was passing by and she was in the area, she’d meet me even for 10 minutes. Today she somehow made me feel she didn’t want to meet me. Which is strange. I feel like she doesn’t care about my feelings, and doesn’t prioritise me, and wasn’t bothered to see me.
She’s also got financial issues due to the pandemic which she said she wants to sort out before we meet up properly, I said okay that’s fine. This was a few days ago. And today, I just thought it’d be nice to see her for 5 minutes but she said those 2 excuses above which made me feel like she wasn’t bothered to see me.
She is also the type of girl who focuses on whatever she’s doing and likes to get it done. But if she was genuinely busy, I wouldn’t be annoyed or hurt. But she was exercising and couldn’t even sacrifice 5 minutes of her time to see someone’s she’s in a relationship with for 1.5 years!!
Should I be annoyed?
How can I respond back to her?
I don’t want to make it a big issue but it’s kinda hurt me and her not willing to give up 5 minutes of her time makes me feel worthless.
And she is 100% loyal, no one else involved.
Posting again as it is much help to hear different peoples’ opinion and advice!
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