I (M18) can't seem to meet new people and never had someone like me or be attracted to me. I'm a bit socially awkward and insecure but for a few years now I've tried breaking through it by making myself go out more, with or without friends and picking up hobbies. I've always been active and thought that fitness was important so I'm typically in environments where I can meet new people with similar interests with me, but I find myself making no progress. I've always strived to be genuine, helpful, active, friendly, and I'm always looking for new ways to grow but I feel like I can't make new friends or be in a relationship. I feel like a lot of my insecurities would be soothed if someone was attracted to me because it would make me feel accepted and wanted, but I don't know if something like that will happen. I see everyone around me finding people and relationships but it feels like an impossible goal for me. I don't know what's wrong with me, and why I'm so unlikable. For a long time I thought it was my looks (I've always been skinny) and how awkward and introverted I am, but I've started to gain weight from working out everyday and I always am trying to be social so now I don't know what to do.
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