She lied about being single?

Hi, I'll try to make this as short as possible.

I met a woman back in Jan 2019, when we met, everything was fine and we clicked instantly. I thought we were just friends and nothing more. Shortly after, within the first two months, she started complimenting me and asked me lots of questions regarding my life. Also, we became pretty cool with each other and I started talking about other women and she got really mad/jealous. Then, she would take random pictures of me and send them to her best friends and she looked up our "compatibility."

However, one of our mutual friends told me she has a boyfriend. In addition, the mutual friend also told me that the woman wants to date me and have a future with me (marriage and kids). I didn't take it to heart because at the end day I thought we were friends and maybe she was just joking around.

The only weird part was I asked her how many boyfriends has she had. She told me like 5 and that she goes out with them for a few months and gets bored and breaks up with them.

One day I met her and the boyfriend somewhere in public. I walked up and introduced myself. She was really happy to see me but didn't tell me who he was. So I made a comment and the guy goes "my girlfriend ... oh yeah." When he said that, she looked down at the ground. So I kept talking and made some jokes. She started laughing but the guy got really mad and didn't want to talk to me anymore.

The next time I saw her, I asked why didn't you tell me he was your boyfriend. She goes "I don't like him like that."

I gave her a weird look and said why are you dating him then. She goes "For Fun". Then I go, do you want to marry him. She said no. But that doesn't make any sense because she says she wants to get married early on in life. Why would you date someone for fun if you want to get married in a few years? Doesn't make any sense.

Then she goes Oh we're taking a break. And she made up some bogus reason why. In addition, every time I asked about the relationship afterwards she denies it and says "He's my friend." She even went to the point of not posting any pictures of them two on Facebook. Whenever I saw her she would be with him but would keep a distance and not hold his hand.

So continuing on, she broke up with the boyfriend 6 times over 1.5 years. (Not sure for the exact reason). I found out from mutual friends that the boyfriend keeps bringing up my name and asks why do we keep talking. I asked her why does she keep taking him back and she goes "Because I'm dumb".

She was finally done with him. I don't know the exact reason why but I know he goes through her phone and somehow I got blocked on the social media. But I was unblocked right after they broke up officially.

However, two weeks after the relationship ended she is talking to another guy and is spending time with him (Maybe a rebound). But its weird because she randomly came to visit me at work with her friends and showed me who they were.

Not sure what is going on in her head ... maybe she's confused .... selfish .... or saving me for later.

I'm at the point where I'm just gonna ask her whats really going on. But, I don't want to be a jerk about it or do anything to scare her. She seems like a really nice person but for some reason isn't good with relationships.

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