It’s been a very tough few months for everyone in their own way. For me, I lost a job and broke up with my boyfriend recently (the boyfriend was longer ago but within 6 months of the job loss).
The timing of everything is terrible and wearing me down. I have been on so many interviews just to get rejected. I have been on a handful of dates and none of them went anywhere.
This last week I was very hopeful about a job, I had a good feeling. And I didn’t get it. The day before I found out I went on a great date with a guy, and I have been very selective about who I meet or what we do due to the current state of things. There have been less dates than what I am used to because of this and also I feel like it is riskier now. So when I go on a date I have to really want to. Usually they end up great but like I said so far, much like my job search, it’s just been false hope over and over.
This last date something happened that doesn’t always. Towards the end they wanted to see me again and made plans for a few days later and even suggested what they’d want to do. I was excited to have such quick positive feedback.
The next day they never texted me so I ended up reaching out. Nothing. The day after when we had our plans, I reached out again. Nothing.
I am just so over the fakeness and the rejections. I don’t know why it was necessary to make future plans then and there if there was no interest. But you know when a date goes well so I didn’t think they were thinking the opposite; and the new plans confirmed that. But nope still got ghosted.
Wanted to vent and see if anyone else could help me figure out why someone would do that. Or is everyone just fake nowadays? Sigh. Having a bad month (and bad last few months).
Thanks for listening reddit.
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