Me & my ex (both in mid twenties) broke up a month before COVID lockdown. During our relationship he gave me mixed feelings, as if he liked me a lot but didn’t want to completely step it up. I wasn’t a secret to his friends and family but I didn’t exist on social media. Now it’s been a couple months since the lockdown and I see him flaunting his new gf on social media. My friends says he downgraded and I hate to think of his new gf this way but I want closure on how to move on and not ruin my self esteem. Questions like “why her and not me?” keep popping in my head considering I didn’t exist on social media and she does...
Our breakup is also nonexistent, at the end I realized I put more effort and I had 1 calm discussion about him stepping it up. After that conversation I stopped making effort and he never stepped it up so we just stopped talking.
Other than how he treated me, who he was as a man in other aspects of his life is exactly what I was looking for... maybe if we met when he’s more mature to settle down it would be picture perfect. I really like him and felt extremely invested so I need help moving on and finding closure within myself to know I’m good enough for the next relationship.
My friends said I overreacted but the first step I took after seeing him display his new gf is to remove him on social media. It just hurts too much.
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