I know a lot of people think adhd is just an attention issue but it’s a lot more! It causes those with adhd to feel emotions stronger, say impulsive things, have executive functioning issues making the right decision, social anxiety/awkwardness, mirror those around them, overthink like crazy, and a lot more. I don’t think the guy was absolutely perfect and never did anything wrong. But I think i over thought a ton & got really upset and rude to him a few times. I also feel like my adhd got worse thought out college and when he met me he met a sweet/shy/reserved/kind girl. Over the year I became a little more like my sassy/queen B/“bad bitch” roommate and that’s not who I really am. But mirroring is a big thing in adhd. My adhd got worse thought the year because it was the first year of college. I’m sure he was weirded out by the personality change, anxiety/awkwardness, and anger over things I could’ve let go. I was never mean to him sober- only when I was blacked out. I am on adderall now and it’s helped me a lot. I don’t really know how to apologize to him- I feel bad because he probably saw a side of me that isn’t really me at all. I don’t really know how to apologize “sorry I have a brain issue”? But I also don’t want him to think I’m someone I’m not.
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