Im f/28 and I've never really dated before. I went on a date recently with a guy and he seems really nice and we both want to keep getting to know each other. He said he we can do stuff at my pace and he won't pressure me into doing anything I don't want to do. I think after I get to know him and maybe if I start to like him maybe I would be okay with affection. I really don't feel attracted to a person until I get to know them. And I'm not a touchy feely person. Even hand holding makes me tense up and my heart races and I have like low key anxiety about being touched. I don't have a history of abuse or anything, but Im just not used to it.
He was going to kiss me when I left but he didn't because he thought I wouldn't like it and he was right. I don't know how to get over this or get to a point where I don't have anxiety about physical affection.
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