We loved each other. Things were looking bright. However I just had a day at work that made me stop and feel completely overwhelmed. I realized that I have so much in my life I need to work on, both career and mentality but have been slowly neglecting because of the effort I’m putting towards the relationship, I basically told her I think I have to go on this journey alone. She’s given every reason to why she can wait on the sidelines, greatly reduce the amount of attention I give her, give up essentially anything to let us stay together and it’s really torn at me because I do love her, but I don’t think I can make true self-progress while in the back of my mind knowing I’m neglecting my partner.
I know you don’t have too many details to work from but should I have let her be my cheerleader but suffer from me not giving 100% to the relationship for unknown amount of time, or did I do the hard but “humane” thing by ending it? I’ve never ended a relationship that was going well and it’s such an Alien feeling.
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