There's a lot of high schoolers in this sub who are stressed out because all their friends are in relationships while they're still single. I'm here to tell you my high school dating experience. I went to a small school of about 500 kids. This was a small town, and the honest truth was I found most of the girls at my school to be ugly. There was only one girl I thought was hot, and two that were pretty (and one of them was annoying as fuck, the other I'd known since I was 6 so I really wasn't into them, although she was really friendly and sweet). And it worked out because the girls in my school found me ugly too. I was a short, scrawny, pimply, awkward kid with a bad haircut. I even recently found out two girls from my school thought I was a creep! (even though I rarely talked to them at all throughout high school). A lot of the guys at my school were teenager horney, and tried to get with anybody that was willing, leading to a lot of regret and embarrassing stories. And it only gets worse for both parties, it seems like since high school ended, everybody in my graduating class is full blown fat and ugly, making the regret that they have even worse. Me on the other hand? I have a clean rap sheet, my friends have no embarrassing stories on me because the only girl I dated in high school went to a school in the city, 30 minutes away from me. I spent my high school experience having fun with my friends, and setting myself up for post-secondary.
So you may be struggling now, but once you're out of high school, some people get really ugly fast, and you'll start questioning "why did I ever find them attractive?" Don't chase a relationship for the sake of being in one. All of my friends that were in relationships in high school have broken up a long time ago, and now they wish that they spent more time with their friends instead of with their ex. Just be patient, and when the right person comes along, you'll know.
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