The title states everything honestly! I(23F) meet this amazing guy(35M) about 4 months ago. Well we decided to start talking and get to know eachother on a more personal level and ultimately date after awhile. We are both wanting to take things slow and make our relationship last for the long haul. I like him a lot. More than I've ever liked someone before. Honestly I think I maybe in love with him. I've never knew what love could be before him. My father was an alcoholic and he never showed emotions at all. The boys I have been with before him were abusive and not good people at all. We get on each others nerves but we don't fight. If something upset either of us. We sit down and talk about it and give the other to say their side of what happened. This happens for me a lot. I am very emotional! He isn't as emotional but he can be. He had to go away for work and I am trying so hard not to freak out but I am having a lot of issues with it. It has nothing to do with him but to do with me. I have severe abandonment issues. They have gotten better. But this week has been so hard. I don't know how to stop them. I have been going to therapy and I go see her again this Tuesday. I was just wondering if anyone has advice about how to process or shift the thoughts to help calm myself until then?
Summary: I have severe abandonment issues and i'm talking to such an amazing man. Can anyone give me advice on how to calm myself with him being gone this week? I don't want to lose him!
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