Hello people of reddit! So I'm (m19) and on the spectrum and I'm pretty bad at getting girls, better than I used to be for sure, but I've only actually been on one date since getting to uni whilst some people I know seem to be getting plenty of action just fine.
A problem I think I'm running into is that I'm kind of a heart on my sleeve, goofball kind of person which it easy to make friends of both sexes ( I have a lot of friends who are girls here) but I make it very clear just from the way I am that I'm a 6'5, lanky, goofball with social anxiety and I'm kind and friendly but not very overtly masculine or serious
a reaction I got when I told some dates was a lot of "awwww" (s) and "she better not break your heart because you're a really good guy" and of course this is a good thing to hear but I wonder if the fact I'm not very masculine, clumsy kind of socially awkward and lack of seriousness makes me less attractive somehow? Like I just imagine being kind of goofy and sometimes not being the best at social interactions make me less attractive
sorry for the rambling but if you took the time to read this I appreciate it!
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