I'm [21F] dating a guy [25M] and it's been 10 months so far. We're not official but we've established a good connection but I've stumbled upon something that is really bothering me. I know how much shit I'm going to get from this but please if you could keep the replies relevant, that'd be helpful. I've been snooping around the accounts he follows on Instagram and a large amount of the girls he follows are basic city girls with that generic "aesthetic" IG look, all skinny white girls who pose in almost no clothing (pigtails in a schoolgirl outfit with massive cleavage) or its straight-up softcore porn or even pages dedicated to just ass pics. BTW, a few of the girls he follows are 19 or 20, which is kind of alarming since he's turning 26 next month... and when I think about it he did swipe right on me on Tinder when I was 19 last year. He actively follows new girls so it doesn't seem like he's stopping anytime soon. We have sex so it's not like I'm not fulfilling him. I know we're not in a relationship but what gives? Is it just me or is this creepy/pretty pervy/a red flag? If he likes super skinny girls who just show ass and tits, how am I supposed to feel about myself? It's defeating and it makes me feel like I don't know who he truly is outside of our time.
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