When women dont answer for a few days or weeks I send message after message, especially when its been left on read.
I feel like Im losing her and need to invest more, but I think this pushes her away even more. And Im not talking about one specific woman, it happened quite many times before.
I ask silly questions and make passive aggressive comments like "If you dont wanna see me again thats okay. But maybe tell me?" if she left me on read for a few weeks with multiple messages.
Obviously this shouldnt be done. Clearly. But it keeps happening.
So how do I keep myself from texting so much? But I also dont want to let the situation die....
The most recent example basically iced me for 3 months!! Very short replies, many ignored messages (left on read for days/weeks), no invest, etc.
Thinking to myself "Ok you pushed her away you were too thirsty." and suddenly today she asked for another date, we met and had sex again.
So I dont know what to do when Im being iced like that. Because obviously its always desinterest (proven by the lady today). But I also dont wanna be annoying.
I have this friend who keeps messaging me and everytime I get a text I go "sigh ok what now", look at the unrelevant, unimportant and uninteresting message and simply ignore it...
Hes a great guy and did nothing wrong, and he also doesnt send me 30 messages a day. But thats probably how I come across like with my texting game.
So how do I improve? How do I get women to message me back?
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