I've always been the kind of guy to try to make plans, see what a gal is up to and it's always left me feeling unwanted and left on read.. MANY gals would just crumb me along, giving me a tiny bit of hope that things will progress, but we end up never meeting.
Recently I have adapted a new method of taking my time responding to gals or just not replying to them for a day or two and the results have kind of shocked me.
Several I have been talking to respond almost immediately and are more engaging in conversation.
One of them was elating about how excited she was to meet me and we met at a bar on Thursday.
A second gal actually said she was going to look elsewhere as I was not giving her enough time in the day (we had met once and the relationship was still in its early stages and did not warrant constant daily contact).
A third gal was at first playing hard to get and failed to meet me twice at my invitation for a date AND I offered to talk to her on the phone and she never went through with the offer. Eventually my responses dwindled and lacked substance. Later on she asked if I wanted to meet and I never responded. I think she unmatched me a few days later... I wondered how she felt about being served the same dish she served me several times before...
Another has already jokingly called me out on it but it hasn't stopped me.
What the heck is going on? Obviously I deserve none of the attention and these women can absolutely find guys like I was prior to changing my approach. It's like being less available has made me more valuable to them.. It's just so fucking stupid.
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