I never thought I would have to come online asking for dating advice but after asking my friend and getting basically "idk lol" I figured I'd try here.
I'm 21M, she's 20. After weeks of wasting time on Tinder I thought I finally found someone. When we met in person twice it went well. She went back home for a few weeks because her classes are online. I try texting her every day but it seems like she doesn't put much effort. She keeps flaking on phone calls. After a few weeks of texting, we were supposed to finally go out again and spend the night together, but now she's flaking out of half of it. I've tried letting her know how I feel without sounding too clingy and she says she wants to hang out but is just so "busy", even thought half of the time when I message her she's watching TV.
I hate one-sided stories and try to see things from her perspective. I feel like if I cut it off now she's going to think that I just wanted to sleep with her and since she's not "putting out" I'm leaving, but that's not it at all. Or maybe she's dealing with her own stuff she doesn't want to share and I'm being insensitive to that. Maybe I'm just boring over text I don't know
I just feel like I like her a lot more than she likes me. I don't want to give up but I might just be wasting my time. I also don't want to go back to that godforsaken app.
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