I (24F) have been talking to a guy (26M) for almost 3 weeks. Things started off really well. We met on tinder while he was in town visiting his parents. Everything was going great the first few days we were talking literally nonstop and then when he got back home things kind of changed. He went back to work so we talked a lot less, which is fine. The conversations slowly started going from very flirty and affectionate to just very platonic. I asked him earlier in the week how he was feeling about our situation and what he wanted to do. He said that he really enjoys talking to me and that we should continue to do what we are doing and go from there. I completely agreed. This was about 5 days ago. Since then we have been talking even less. We have shared a lot of personal struggles and stuff and I thought we were both on the same page as far as our "connection." I told him that we just need to make sure that we communicate how we're feeling about talking because the distance is hard, and we both agreed. Recently he has taken to leaving me on opened/read for hours and then texting/snapping me like it's nothing. He has been off work the last few days because he is quarantining, so I know he isn't doing anything. We exchange maybe 10 or so messages a day, and I don't know how to bring it up without sounding needy. I just wish he would be straight up and say if he doesn't want to talk or not. I don't want this drawn out thing where he slowly stops talking to me, I just want to either know exactly where he stands so we can either completely cut things off or keep getting to know each other.
Is this normal or am I making more out of nothing? I miss talking to him because I really did enjoy it, I'm just not sure if I should move on or if I should acknowledge it. Any advice is appreciated.
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