I've always heard that you cant love someone before you learn to love yourself.
I'm not sure how true that statement might be, because I've never really been in a relationship. I think I went on a date once (?) but overall, I've had no real experience romantically with anyone aside from a few online flings.
I know this probably sounds immature as hell, but I'm twenty two. I've never even kissed, and I don't know. A part of me feels like I want to explore something with someone, like...i'm growing up so much and I've already had so many years that have passed me by. I just feel like it's all been wasted, and I don't wanna waste any more. But it's hard not to do that when I self-sabotage at every turn.
So at what point is it OK for me to try and start over again? Is it OK to do this with the amount of baggage I have going on?
Also, how do you overcome your own psychological barriers enough to actually try and see someone? I struggle a lot with commitment, avoidance, etc. I just get terrified and angry and suddenly don't like the person any more. Either ghost them or break it off.
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